Why do ladies lie about their virginity on new date?

Virginity is not a thing of shame, even though the society has stigmatize it and link it with fidelity among our female folks. this has now turn our beautiful ladies who are sex loving and having equal right just like men to express their sexuality into cold individuals. Hmm.. don't get me wrong here, am speaking for those that are not, but if you are, i must congratulate you and encourage you to keep being until the right man who will take you to the alter and wait for that wedding night. All am saying if you are not, you should be as proud as any one because you are not to look down upon and not all virgins make good wife.However this a little story of this young girl whom the society have caused to surfer for nothing. Please read and share

Mather was a young and lovely girl who love life just like any one else, and had all the expectation of a good life hoping one day her dream man will make her a woman on her wedding night, but this dream was short leave. When she was 18 year old she was in love with this guy she met while in the university in her first year. Their love was one that had hope for the feature and they truely loved them self, they dated for 3 years and without sexual activity even when her guy was demanding as all guys always do but she stood her ground.

But this walls was eating off each day by her love for this guy and one day she let him had his way and it was gone with the promises that he will be with her for the rest of her life and it did seem so but after 2year misunderstand came in and kept them apart. Did i say misunderstand, No he was caught cheating with another girl as it is always the ways of guys because nature has made them so.
So she moved on with life and kept the past behind, but we are humans we can not keep being lonely so she fail in love again with another and as they date it got to a point when she was asked by her new date if she was still a virgin?

Though embarrassing to some,but it always get to this point in any new relationship that is just getting off the ground. Mather could not look into the eyes of her lover to tell him the truth and she lied she was. These guy believed and avoided any thing that will dishonor her and when it was time, he took her to the altar and on their wedding night he discovered she was not what she said she was and this was very hurting.

Now my question is why the lies and why leave it for so long before telling your spouse and who should we blame for making this ladies get to a point of not having the boldness of saying they are not. All comment are welcome.

An Angel i have seen Before

This is a request from one of our regular readers, so you contribution are highly welcome.

Request by: Samuel
Location: South Africa.

I was wondering long a go in my life how sweet and nice it is to fall in love, but as i grow older i found out that love has course many to be something else or should i say many have become something else in the name of love. this story am about to tell you all is one of my litle adventure into the land of love, and i will be very glad if at the end of this story, all of you will give me some advice on how i can handle this situation.

It was a raining day and i was late for work, which i later did not make it to the office. i retired to my room and tried to catch on with sleep as the weather was cold and sweet for dreaming, i lay down throw some coverlet over my self and began to sleep. i have not actually slept for 20 minute when i heard a little knock on my door, i was lazy to get off the bad but i did finally, to the do i went and on opening the door stood an angel i have seen, the angel was so blinding me with its light which i letter knew it was the light ray from the sun playing some trick with my eyes, but as my eyes got ajusted and i could see the face of these angel, i exclaim ah... stella its you, God how perfect you were made, i can not deny the fact that you are lusciously bless and she gave me a smile, that was so catching i must confess.

I ask her so what can i do for you and she said nothing. and i asked her in to the sitting room. She was not new to sitting room since she was actually dating my flat mate, and i have been her secrete admire all this while, but i know nothing will ever change what it is. well when we were in there she said if i could lose her hair since her guy was not in, i gladly accepted with the mind of having some on to chat away the day, but i never knew i was in for some thing.

We started loosening the hair, not up to a minute or so she began to act funny and tried to kiss me, initially i was surprise but i let her have it and she said she is sorry" that i was the she truly love and not my flat mate" i was wordless for sometime and i sad at last "you know it can not work" i will not want your guy to be angry with me, so please lets leave things they way they are even though i now i need you so badly, but are desire will only create enmity between all of us. She started crying and keep saying she loves me and that i have been the one she has loved all this while that even when she is with him she thinks of me.

Now am confuse as i put this words down, i need some respond on how to handle this situation.
should i go ahead and Love her or should i not.
thanks for reading.